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When you are trying to get out of a rut and become the best woman you can be, there are certain personality traits that you will need to embody in order to reach your true potential.


The following personality traits will help immensely during your personal, professional, and emotional development, so be sure to read on and learn more.



Having awareness is about more than knowing your surroundings, as it is also about having awareness of oneself. Those who are self-aware are far more successful than those who are not, since they have a stronger idea of their strengths and weaknesses.

To become more self-aware, you’ll need to have awareness of your reality, your thoughts, feelings and behaviour at every given moment. Awareness is also taking a deeper look within and honouring your wants and needs and expressing them.

The more aware you are the easier it becomes to maintain awareness of others. Winners know how to balance their own needs with the needs of the people around them. When crises and challenges take place, a woman with supreme awareness can separate fact versus opinion and to consider every possible course of action before making a final decision.



How many of us truly live in the present moment? Aliveness is energy and vitality, and an unshakable life force within. To enhance your aliveness, you must make a conscious decision to be optimistic and engaged on an everyday basis, no matter what life might throw your way. Aliveness means that you are present in every moment, as opposed to spending an excessive amount of time and energy worrying about the future and what it may or may not have in store for us.

Being present in the moment has everything to do with spontaneity and going with the flow. Winners who practise aliveness are able to navigate themselves through the ebb and flow of life, keeping a cool head, while maintaining a certain sense of unpredictability. If you feel that you are beginning to become too predictable, this is a sure sign that you need to work on your level of aliveness.



Authenticity is crucial, as it allows the people you come into contact with to feel a certain sense of trust in you. When people trust you they give you their love, attention and loyalty. While authenticity is innate, there are things that we can do to bolster it.

Authenticity is linked to self-respect and the ultimate expression of self-love. It is letting go of the need for approval and acceptance of others and having the courage to express your needs, wants and desires. Those who wish to become more authentic should start by separating facts from opinions, removing all of the bias and subjectivity from their decision making process so that they can make decisions that are beneficial in both the short and long term. To achieve true success, you need to focus on what matters to you and what you stand for without fear of being judged or criticised. Always be true to yourself as those who think and act like everyone else are unable to reach their true potential.


Learn to strengthen these 3 personality traits and set yourself up to win.

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